That’s my story and I’m stickin’ to it. It’s late in the day for me to be saying “Hey there!” to all my readers, but this day has been doubly special and I wanted to share.
For those of you who may not be close enough to hear me shouting from the rooftops for the last five months, I am pleased as punch to announce that I am soon going to be a grandma for the first time! I spent the afternoon at a lovely baby shower for my radiant daughter, watching family and friends bless her and welcome our new little one.
Is that exciting, or WHAT!?
The thing that makes it doubly sweet is that today is also an anniversary for me. No, it’s not the day I married Smuffy.
Twenty years ago, I got that call from the doctor that no one wants. When you hear, “The biopsy does show cancer”, everything shifts. Life is different. I was young. My daughter was not yet fifteen. I was homeschooling and to me it was a calling. Up until then, when I overheard people with health problems saying, “Well, you know, I just take one day at a time”, I thought it was canned conversation – something you say when you don’t know what else to say. Over the next several months, I learned what it meant to take one day at a time – to do what I could when I could and let everything else go.
The world calls us cancer survivors. I refused to adopt that term for myself. In my mind, it forms a picture somewhat similar to someone who has been rescued from months lost in a jungle after a plane crash and crawled back to civilization on their belly and elbows – someone who will never be the same again. By the grace of God and carried on the prayers of family and friends, I came through not as someone battered, scarred and fearful, but as a winner! The enemy that attacked me is defeated and the trophy is mine!
You’ve probably heard it said that the best revenge is a life well lived. What better revenge can I have than to mentor other people with their health and help them to thrive? If I can help someone avoid the path leading to failing health, then I am a success.
Two decades later, I got to glory in this shower welcoming my grandchild rather than…well, you know…the alternative.
So, I sent myself a card because…why shouldn’t I? I couldn’t let this day close without inviting you all to join me in wishing myself a “Happy 20th Healthyversary!”
May you learn, grow and thrive in body mind and spirit! God is good and I am blessed!
You can find more of my story on my Thrive! page and lots of healthy recipes and great healthy tips are always being added to my Food Freedom page.
Happy Healthyversary Barb! Celebrating with you and congratulations to your daughter. Now, I am anxiously waiting for the birth announcement! (You have such a great blog.)
Thank you, Diane! And, congratulations on your new book! So glad you enjoy the blog. I’ll definitely let everyone know when baby arrives – I’m giddy already!
Cousin, “Happy 20th Healthyversary!”
Thanks, Ruth! Always good to hear from you!
How wonderful ..and congratulations to you on both events! I am a 9 month survivor. With God’s help and grace, may I be a 20 year survivor as well!
Amen to that, Chris!
Great story Barb. Congratulations! On your 20th Healthyversary! And on becoming a Grandma. You will be the best.
Thank you, Marilyn! I’m feeling blessed on all sides.
To all of Barb’s blog readers, I want to say what a talented writer Barb is and that members of the Boonslick Creative Writers are blessed to call her one of us. The first thing we did at our meeting today was drink a toast (gingle ale) to celebrate her 20th anniversary. I promised her we would “party hardy” on her behalf as she shared in the joy of her daughter’s baby shower.
To Barb and daughter, “You go, Girls”
Awwww…hated to miss the meeting with you all. Thanks for your kind words!